I'm not gonna reel off 50 things that I think women want to hear. Its just that I take random titles from the things I can see when I write an entry to this thing.
So I've been thinking - what is the key to winning a girls heart...I suppose more importantly what is the key to DISCOVERING Gods heart?
Is it flowers and chocolates?
Is it heroism?
Is it valiance?
Is it confidence?
Is it boldness?
The holy spirit is the one that will guide me to my heavenly father's heart. And I think that besides God the only other mystery that lies on God's green planet is the inner workings of a womans heart.
(As Cities Burn - Worshipcore)
2 comments:
I think you're right, but I'm not sure (not that I thought you were implying this, it's just a thought) that understanding one gives any insight into the other, either way round. I don't fully understand the inner workings of God's heart (of course) and I haven't got the faintest idea what goes on inside a woman's heart. Confuses me as much as anyone else!
(This is a HUGE generalisation and at odds with most ego-based views))
The way to a womans heart is to be a real man. But what is that and what does a woman really, deep down, need from a real man?
You do not have to prove yourself bigger and bolder and more heroic than anyone else including her.
Women need trust. They need to know a man is dependable when things get tough. To know he'll be stable when her emotions are in chaos. To know he's a team player and not a soloist. To know he as the balls to commit himself.
Someone who'll give them new experiences and teach them things about themselves and the world around them. That'll stimulate them, make them laugh, make them cry.
Someone who'll take them on a rollercoaster ride while keeping them safe.
Someone who doesn't NEED their opinion, NEED their approval or NEED their acceptance.
You have to know you are enough. That you are exactly the way you are meant to be and that is exactly right. You're not perfect, you can and will improve, but you are complete. You are enough and you are loved.
Never go up to a woman and try to get her approval. You're the one making the move. You're the one making the decisions.
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